Happy happy birthday Aunt Tami!
The first time that I met Aunt Tami was at a family camping trip. It was also the first time that I met the rest of T.J.'s family. He told them that he was bringing a "friend". He wanted to surprise them, so he let them think that it would be his best friend Adam, but his mother knew better. I found out the night before that he hadn't told his family that I was coming. I said that he had to at least tell his mom so that she wouldn't be upset that he brought his girlfriend without letting her know ahead of time. So, he called his mom and told her that this friend would need to sleep in a separate tent, but that was all. She didn't say anything to anyone, but told me later that she knew.... as mother's always do.... that he was bringing a girl, not Adam. This was a really big deal for T.J., because bringing me was pretty much announcing our pending engagement to the whole family.
T.J. and I drove up after work and arrived that night. We saw all of the adults standing around the campfire talking after the kids had been put to sleep. Wanting to surprise them, he pulled up slow in his white S-10 with the headlights off so it would be harder to see who was inside the cab. I'll always laugh about Grandpa calling out after seeing my shadow in the truck, still thinking that it was a guy, "
Who's the long haired hippy?" We found a place to park between some trees. T.J. couldn't stop smiling. He was nervous that everyone was watching to see just who would get out. T.J. kissed me, asked if I was ready, and opened my door for me. Instantly we could hear lots of laughing and his mom yelled,
"I knew it!" It was so fun to meet and talk to his parents, aunts, uncles, and grandma and grandpa for the very first time that night around the campfire.
We got rained out and packed up and left for grandma's house in the morning. I met all of his cousins while trying to help his mom and the aunts and all of the kids get packed up and de-mudded before they got into their cars. It was,
"Hi it's nice to meet you!" (insert the sound of rain hitting the trash bags we were all wearing)" and then run run run.
Here is a photo from that day of T.J.'s Grandpa playing with his little brother Jordan, Grandma, and Mom. T.J. and the long haired hippy in the blue cardigan are in the back.

When we got to Grandma's house I saw that Uncle David and Aunt Tami's sweet little Molly was sad and wasn't playing with her cousins. She was embarrassed about having a black eye. I took her outside to T.J.'s truck where my suitcase was to put some makeup on her.
I sat her on the passenger seat and got started with some foundation. It wasn't working to hide the bruise, so I moved on to concealer. It had to be a little thick above and below her eye to cover up the purple. I blended it out and used foundation on the rest of her cheek. Then her cheeks were off balance, so I used foundation on the other cheek. Then I had to do the rest of her face and use a light powder to set it. She looked totally pale and washed out, and of course had concealer in the tips of her eyelashes on the bruised eye... I was thinking "
Oh my gosh! I should have asked her mom first! They hardly even know me!" This was turning out to be much more makeup that I had planned. I told her that since she was wearing makeup anyway, we would make it special and do her up right, the works. When wearing that much foundation you have to use mascara and blush, so I used a little lip gloss too, since we were already in it to win it. I was so nervous that her mom wouldn't be happy with me for putting that much makeup on her. She looked really cute, but I wasn't sure if it would be okay with her mom. Aunt Tami was so nice and told me several times that day that Molly was happy and wasn't embarrassed anymore. Molly was back to herself again and was enjoying playing with her cousins. She said that I made Molly feel special, but Tami made me feel special too.
She is friendly and welcoming and has always made me feel like part of the family. T.J. loves her so much and we always look forward to the times that we get to see her.
Happy 50th Birthday Aunt Tami! We love you!
T.J., Suzanne, Trista, and Whitney